Taylor Swift and Jake Gyllenhaal avoided a run-in Friday night at a private Oscar party in Beverly Hills, but they couldn't escape each other on Oscar Sunday.

As some of you may have heard, the exes were seen "talking intensely" at Vanity Fair's lavish after-party.

So was it a friendly, flirty convo?

Not exactly...

While it's unclear exactly what was hashed out, we're told from sources inside it looked like it was mostly Taylor talking, or rather "venting."

"Neither of them looked angry," adds the spying partygoer. "It just looked like they had some things to get off their chests. Let's just say it didn't look like a flirty chat."